Porn Addict !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pornography when searched on Google popped up with 4,58,00,000 results and that too in just whooping 0.27 seconds, well that’s the power of technology but without digressing way too much I am not here to talk about the techno advancement rather I am here to share my thoughts about “Pornography” one of the most untouched burning topic of all time.

Though, pornography has not been a new kid on the block, it has been here since decades now from the eras of the Romans, Greeks to our 21^st century only the medium for consuming it has been changing with time, like, in earlier days the rulers, kings and queens used to watch their slaves performing sexual activities amongst themselves so that the elite can get aroused but with the changing time now we watch it on our laptops, cell phones etc. so the basic idea has been same even Khajuraho temples in India depict sculptures in different sexual postures.

With the passage of time many technological developments have taken place but people have meagerly grown they still have been stuck with the mere idea of getting sexually aroused after seeing some explicit sexual content. Well, its not them to be blamed for it's the tedious lifestyle which people have started following now has left them with a very small amount of time for fulfilment of their own personal desires, thus with so less time left for themselves have resulted in instant ecstasy moments further culminating in these readymade libido moments.

Well, by watching these blue films (well lets just refer them as pornos, as the earlier representation seems way too tawdry) one just creates a demand for filmed prostitution as pornography is similar to Greek word pornographia, (pornē -"prostitute" or "prostitution", and graphein "to illustrate”) thus meaning "a written description or illustration of prostitutes or prostitution", so thereby by creating such a demand it results in human trafficking as prostitution has never been anybody’s dream it has always bred out due to financial crisis, family troubles etc. Though, it seems to be an easy way of getting remunerated but it has been part and parcel of hell other problems, which ultimately result in guilt and trauma.

Porn has never been a medium of entertainment but nowadays on the flipside it is turning into a major genre under which entertainment falls. Though it has some side effects but it has continually been rising up the charts. Even viewing of porn for twice a week starts killing ones creativity and imagination; it starts acting like a slow poison eventually obliterating personal fantasies and desires as what comes to mind when one gets a chance to get involved with his/her desired person is all the crap seen in pornos instead of your fancies involving kissing, touching, caressing.

In populous opinion personal thoughts involve much of sensuality and mutuality as contrary to the sub ordinance of women shown in these films, which though reflect the general hierarchical system of society.

But I seriously wonder what qualifies as sexually pleasing in these films whether a boy choking a girl, or having brutal sex without caring for his companion, or a women crying seems sexy or is it raping a women considered sexually arousing, if it is so then God himself must be very ashamed to learn about the fact that the men whom he created to love and care women have started objectifying women as sex toys. Even we can find different categories like Rape, Humiliation, Cry, Abuse and many more related with distress of women on porn websites.

Everything we feed our mind tends to change us and our mentality eventually, thus leading to rocketing number of cases especially in a country like India where illiteracy forms a major chunk of the society, the “Delhi Damini” rape case is a very apt example to this over dosage of bullshit to our minds.

Nowadays, about 90% 12 years old through varied accessible sources watch porn, which are addictive and paralyzing especially at this tender age of puberty when a child’s whole world starts changing suddenly. These movies are paralyzing because these limit ones mind and thinking, as these don’t care about sensual, passionate, generous aspects of unison of two people. The beauty of a teenage love story or of a healthy adult relationship have started getting hampered by the predominant ideas of lust permeating through these films in people’s mind as now people have ceased to share their views and ideas about sex rather they just only see it, thus it is a kind of sexual mutation that has been in action now.

Even girls have also not been left untouched by this porn influenced culture as now not only the hard core porn but even the commercials and music videos are being shot in such a way that it seems to be an alter ego of porn just the difference being that it is cladded porn. By being affected by such obscenity everywhere now teenagers have started thinking that if someone has to be worthy of love then he/she need to be worthy of sexual desire thus resulting in so many MMS scandals as now girls are ready to be video taped in inappropriate situations risking their respect and dignity just for showing that they are sexually desirable. Even if the boys misuse the video by uploading them online or by selling it, the paradoxical nature of the society comes to surface as always the girl who has been blamed, nobody addresses the boy for moral conduct which ultimately results in distress, isolation for the girl and her family, at times female victims of such cases end up committing suicide. Thus, porn may have such fatal ramifications as well.

Pornography or Prostitution has never been and never will be an embodiment of freedom of expression, freedom of occupation it has always been an embodiment of sexual exploitation, human trafficking, pimping, solicitation etc.

Sex Industry always chews people and spits them out when one loses his/her perfect body shape with age, generally sex workers doesn’t even make to age of 50 in countries where average life expectancy is 70-75 years. The major causes of death have been drugs, STD’s, being murdered by the pimps or by their boy friends and lastly because of suicide caused due to social death as no one prefers to go out with a prostitute thus causing isolation. Well, whether be porn movies, brothels, hooking services or escorts all of these form a whole spectrum of prostitution.

Well, what one should care more is about mutual physical and emotional safe sex rather than subjugation. One should care about bringing laughter together because if two souls can’t laugh together then what good can grow between them sexually or non sexually.

As long as demand of such things continue supply wouldn’t stop thus pushing hundreds of other innocent girls and children in the pits of darkness where there is no hope of change. So, please stop being silent as “Silence perpetuates more Silence” while talking brings awareness and thus a Change.

PS: This is the video from where i took the idea and the bullet points ..